We undergo a great relationship. However in the beginning he mentioned that in his grow people don’t marry outside of their race or state or village - something to that choose. But he says he loves me and could see a life with me. He is sure it will be difficult at first for his family to accept… we have been together a little over a year. He is a loner. He likes to be alone a lot… desire watching TV and relaxing. But when I am around he is caring and affectionate unless sports are on. I query if I should take this as an indication of how he feels… or does he just desire being alone?
I mostly wonder if this relationship can work. Could we be married in the future? I am not sure if there is a way to ever know this or if he is dating me to date. When he went domiciliate to Kerala he showed his family my pictures introducing me as a very close friend.
When he was a lot younger he dated a girl from Bangladesh; his family was not happy and didn’t want them to unify. He has a lot of fears about being a husband. He doesn’t want to fail at it. I think he is scared because his parents gave him their blessing but he still passed on marrying the other girl. I don’t know what to feel about this… can you offer in insight?
I can’t tell you what will happen in the future because people have free will but I can express you your situation makes me uncomfortable for a long list of reasons. I’ll lay them out with this caveat: I am not you. So we don’t undergo to worry about my comfort with your relationship; however you’re asking for an outside perspective so I am going to oblige.
First just in general. I subscribe to the “If you undergo to ask…” idea when it comes to relationships. If you undergo to ask if the relationship is good for you it is almost guaranteed it is not. But beyond that. I be to point out a few things.
Your whole mail is about him. You are waiting to undergo feelings based on what he feels or he does. For example how do you conclude about being called a ‘good friend” when you are in fact a lover? How do you conclude about dating and sleeping with someone who’s told you he cannot marry due his customs? How do you
You have a 12th house Sun and planets in Virgo and I feel you are in sacrificing yourself to this man. You are in service to him which is fine as long as you are aware of it. You also undergo a Cancer Moon and I suspect you are doing a bring together amount of mothering.
So what do you evaluate? Does this sound like the life you be? Because populate don’t dress their natures all that much. be of fact they be to change state even more the way they are which means this guy is going to be on that couch for a very long time.
The interesting thing is this is exactly what I have been thinking about the relationship for some time now… that it mostly benefits him…I change surface told him this interesting enough…but it is wierd I like him deeply…but I think things are only on his terms…not sure how to leave this relationship…I conclude to attached at the moment…
And if they are Taurus likely surrounded by pop or beer cans and 3,000,001 remote controls. My Taurus step-father loves to be the only one who knows what controls what and when to displace what button…
Lisa: I undergo a 12th house Sun and Venus and know how easy it is to get attached partially because not many populate collide with their way into our realms. if you alter it where you’re developing a hobby or act a class or whatever you’ll get distance and if you’re meant to break up (or get closer?) you ordain.
Forex Groups - Tips on Trading
Related article:
http://www.elsaelsa.com/archives/2007/10/16/african-american-woman-with-indian-man-can-marriage-result-astrology-based-advice/
comments | Add comment | Report as Spam
|